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52:52
Thursday, 11/15/07
"In daylight? In sunsets? In midnights? In cups of
coffee? In inches? In miles? In laughter? In strife?
...525,600 minutes..."
Rent-heads will recognize the above lyrics as
wondering, "How do you measure a year?" Today I have
served 52 weeks of my 54 month sentence; tomorrow will
be one year.
I find it astonishing that I have been in prison for a
year. On the outside, there are so many markers of the
passage of time: places you've traveled, people you've
seen, even small things like a movie you saw or
something you bought. All of these things mark time in
ways we don't normally realize. Only in a place where
each day is a near as one can get to exactly the same
as the day before can you really appreciate the
variety of a seemingly uneventful life on the outside.
Here, time seems to fold in upon itself. This is
neither good nor bad; it is neither pleasant nor
unpleasant -- it's just surreal. You'd have to
experience it to understand.
But a year is a benchmark nonetheless, and today I am
looking back. Most importantly, this year went by
incredibly fast. You might expect that the sameness
from one day to the next would cause time to drag. But
for me it absolutely flew. I feel like I just got
here.
Secondly, the panic never set in. The best way to
describe my feelings walking through that door last
year is "underwhelming." I recall that the officer
processing me in asked if I'd ever been in prison
before. "No," I told her. "You seem very calm," she
said. And I was.
While on house arrest last year, Peter Young and I
exchanged letters. Around late summer, as my date to
surrender neared, I dared to confess to Peter that, in
some ways, I was looking forward to prison. Some time
to be away from the responsibilities of my life, not
to have to be ambitious, not to have to accomplish
anything. Ironically, I saw prison as time not to have
to think about how what I do now will affect the
future -- my future, the future of animal rights. I
saw it as a break.
Certainly this would wear off as the date approached.
My nerves would become unsettled. I would be anxious
and scared. The moment the door shut behind me, the
panic would set in. But I never was and it never did.
At the time I self-surrendered, this facility was
overcrowded and I was put in the hole to await a bed
on the compound. I was put in a 2-person cell with two
people already in it. The only bed space was a
mattress on the floor. I lay down and felt so good. "I
don't have to do anything" was my first thought. The
day before, I'd reached the end of my to-do list for
essentially the first time in 10 years. As I lay on
that mattress, I felt the unfamiliar, very pleasant
sensation of not being restless, not feeling like I
should be doing something other than nothing.
Much as I enjoyed the respite from my busy life, time
in the hole did nothing to change my fundamental
nature and, after two weeks, I was ready to be out of
there and doing things. I remember waking up one
morning and thinking, "Okay, I've had enough of this."
A few hours later, I was released out into the
compound.
As 52 months stretched out before me, I didn't see how
I could ever be bored. There was so much I wanted to
read, so many things I wanted to learn, so many
muscles I wanted to exercise -- mental and physical.
Again, though, I figured I must be crazy. Why was I
viewing this as an opportunity? I even considered that
I might really have a chemical imbalance: too much
serotonin, an inability to feel bad in unpleasant
situations. Otherwise, the novelty was bound to wear
off. Probably, the higher I was, the harder I'd fall.
But the fall, like the panic and the boredom, never
came.
As I consider where I stand a year after coming here,
my strongest feeling is one of equanimity. I am so
grateful to be able to see the hue of the grass I'm
standing on, to realize that, though there is the
green of my family and friends and freedom on the
other side, there is some green grass here too. I've
read more in the past year than in many other years
combined. The gym here is free. And I actually keep in
better touch with many of my friends and family from
here than I had at home.
Granted, I have been very fortunate. Both I and my
family are healthy. The level of violence in women's
prisons is low. This facility has a salad bar. A
change in any one of these could easily turn the
situation from one of inconvenience to downright
misery. Anyone reading recent articles in the Earth
First! Journal by various imprisoned animal and eco
activists will gather that it is difficult to
generalize about prison experiences.
But it hasn't been all fun and games for me either.
I'm convinced I live with the 1400 most irritating
people on Earth. I often can't fall asleep at night
because I lie there fantasizing about vegan goodies.
And I've definitely had more than one infuriating
encounter with staff.
But it is precisely in these hardships that I find
value in my ability to see the glass as half-full. It
is easy to be happy when everything is pleasant. But
it feels amazing to be able to be happy in spite of so
much that is unpleasant.
Before living it myself, I thought the claim that they
could never imprison our hearts and minds was empty
rhetoric, a meaningless platitude, cliche, truly a
bunch of hooey. If I were in prison, I thought, I'd
never be able to feel beyond my immediate confinement.
But I was so, so wrong. I can count my truly bad days
here on one hand. In my situation, I still have the
freedom to choose between rotting in prison and
thriving. I insist on doing the latter.
My mom sent me a note recently that said, "Life isn't
about waiting for the storm to pass. It's about
learning to dance in the rain." I do love to dance.
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